: When I got pregnant later than expected, people started asking why it took my husband and me so long to have a baby. Soon, many began offering their opinions, suggesting that we should have more children.Harriette Cole: My roommate is so happy about the election, and I want to move out
I don’t know how to respond without seeming rude or dismissive. How can I politely tell them that it’s our choice, and they aren’t the ones who will decide what’s best for us?People always have opinions about others’ lives, especially when it comes to children. For some reason, they feel they have the right to share their views with others.
If they persist, tell them you are not interested in discussing this with them. This is a private, personal matter that you will not talk about.My husband and I have been married for over a decade, and we own and run a family business, which means we spend nearly every waking moment together.At first it felt like a bonding experience, and we were excited about building something together. As time has gone on, though, the constant togetherness is starting to put a strain on our relationship.
We’re both committed to the business and want it to succeed, but we also want to protect and nurture our marriage. How can we find a healthier balance between our work lives and our personal lives so we can reconnect and enjoy each other’s company again without the business always intruding?Sounds like you both need hobbies or other activities that give you time away from each other. There’s nothing wrong with that.