It sounds like you brought a little excitement to your workplace at a time when they needed it. Unfortunately, that made you the focus of everyone’s ongoing attention.DEAR HARRIETTE:
Half the time I am so mad at my husband that I don’t talk to him. The rest of the time, we either act nice to each other but it’s pretty superficial, or we yell expletives at each other. It’s a mess.Some of my friends have been pushing me to have a party, but it feels so fake. How can I handle this situation without drawing too much attention to our anniversary or what’s going on between us?A party is the least of your worries. Take the pressure off of yourself on that front.
Envision the life you want for yourself moving forward. What would you do each day? Would your husband be present? If so, how would the two of you interact? How would you spend your downtime?
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