When Weks was 35, she set out to get married within the year— not just to anyone, but the person who was “not 80%... but 100% who she wanted.” To Weks, business goals require the same commitment to herself and her visualized potential — she is deserving of her goals and won’t “settle” for a compromise. “There's a little bit of magic involved in creating relationships,” Weks said.
Of course, in this process it is hard not to fall victim to your own negativity. Weks advises to watch out for toxic of negative thought patterns that may target yourself or even the other person in the relationship. By welcoming yourself to good energy, you are able to successfully build the charisma you need to convince and comfort others in the relationship through your warmth and admiration.
But of course, while it is important to give yourself to the other person, don’t put them on a pedestal or let them devalue you.“We all have pain, hopes, dreams, fears and doubts,” Weks said. “The person you hold in such high regard may be able to learn something profound from you. Don't lose sight of that fact. If you put them on a higher plane they will sense it as a clue of your value or lack of confidence.” In business, just like in dating - know when to walk away.