My boyfriend of 10 years and I became acquainted because I was his tenant. He is 25 years my senior. I agreed to continue to pay rent because he told me that I would get the house when he died. To be fair, I also was not going to be able to move because the rents in my area began to skyrocket, and as a young single mother I wanted to work part-time so that I could care for my young son.
Since the pandemic, we have had to close our businesses and he has had to go back to work. I started an apparel company in 2019, but the pandemic has affected that business as well, and so I have been living off of unemployment benefits. I have a congenital heart condition, and I do not feel comfortable looking for work until I have been vaccinated. I have not paid rent since August 2020.
Six months ago, I became very frustrated and made a few spreadsheets: one documenting the rent I have paid over the last 10 years, one for all of the unpaid labor, and another documenting anything I felt he has paid for me . I sent it to him and explained that I felt he did not value my contributions, and he complained that I had “sent him a bill.
“ You are in a committed, monogamous relationship, but you are not quite committed to the same things. ”
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Dump him now.
Sex should be financially rewarding, when marriage is not a commitment option.
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Leave that bum
Your self respect is all the way on the floor baby girl.
Takes your commissions and you pay rent. What is your phone number I can USE as well
Leave
You’re a walkover. Better he does that to you and you’ve got a roof over your head than you going into the real world and get stepped on by everyone else.
Move, find a different job, and find someone worth your time 🤷🏾♀️ I got married before 2010... before meeting, we both said we would never get married.
That's not a girlfriend. That's an unpaid intern with poonanny priveleges
Grow the fuck up and value and respect yourself?
You are a business associate providing free sex. Start acting like a business partner and value your commodities. Move on
You can start by having self respect and getting a new job and place
How.bout you get rid of him. Duuuuuuhhhhhhhhh. Not rocket science
Talk about the Situation and him know what you Want if he doesn't see, agree! You Move ON with your Life! You Deserve More!
Get a new boyfriend.
Honestly just play among us
Uh dump the creep